Don’t Skip the Gratitude — The Role of Appreciation in Retention
How do you show appreciation in ways that feel authentic and consistent?
Appreciation isn’t a bonus—it’s a strategy. When people feel seen and valued, they’re more likely to stay, grow, and contribute. And yet, appreciation is often the first thing to fall away in the busy pace of a new school year.
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Bridging Generational Perspectives in the Workplace
How do generational dynamics show up in your program—and how can they become a source of strength?
Many early childhood teams span two or more generations. And with that diversity comes both opportunity and complexity. Onboarding is one of the key times when generational assumptions, communication styles, and values can either collide or connect.
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Emotional and Relational Intelligence Are the Real Curriculum
How are emotional (feelings management) and relational (connection abilities) skills taught and modeled in your team culture?
In early childhood education, we talk a lot about emotional development in children. But what about emotional and relational intelligence within our teams, and especially our new hires?
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It Takes a Team - Welcoming Isn't Just a "Leader's" Job
Onboarding often lands solely on the shoulders of directors or instructional leaders—but building a welcoming culture is everyone’s job. In strong teams, every member sees themselves as part of the welcome.
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Leading with Heart — The Power of Human-Centered Onboarding
The first days and weeks of a new school year shape far more than just the schedule—they shape culture. For new staff members, this is a time of anticipation, uncertainty, and hope. How we welcome them sets the tone for their sense of safety, connection, and long-term commitment. That’s why human-centered onboarding isn’t just nice to have—it’s essential.
Human-centered leadership begins with empathy.
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What’s Next (And How You Can Join Me)
The book may be written, but the journey is just beginning. Over the next year, I’ll be working with editors, designers, and early childhood leaders to bring this project to life. The book is scheduled for release next summer—and I’m already thinking about how it can support real teams in real programs.
But you don’t have to wait until it hits the shelves to start the conversation.
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What the Research (and Real Life) Taught Me
Writing this book meant digging deep—not just into research but into real conversations with teams. I listened to educators describe what works when trust breaks down, when roles are unclear, or when burnout creeps in. I studied how emotional intelligence, psychological safety, and courageous leadership influence the daily rhythms of team life.
But I also heard stories of joy—
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What I Did This Summer!
This summer didn’t look like tropical beaches or bustling conferences—it looked like a keyboard, endless notes, and lots of tea. I finally finished writing my book on highly effective teams in early childhood education.
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It's the end of the school year...
As the final days of the school year approach, early childhood classrooms begin to buzz with celebrations, transitions, and reflections. Behind the scenes of this joyful wrap-up, highly effective early childhood teams are engaging in intentional practices that make a lasting impact. The end of the school year isn’t just a time to wind down—it’s an opportunity to solidify the progress made, nurture relationships, and lay the groundwork for the future.
Rather than reflecting individually, highly effective teams take time to reflect together.
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Choosing Collaboration Over Competition
In early childhood education, the best teaching teams know something important: we’re stronger when we work together. It’s not about being the “best” teacher in the room—it’s about making sure every child gets the best version of all of us. That’s what collaboration is all about.
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Strategies for Building a Culture of Feedback
In early childhood education, strong teams aren’t built by avoiding hard conversations—they’re built by leaning into them with trust, empathy, and the shared goal of getting better together. Feedback, when done well, isn’t about pointing out flaws—it’s about lifting each other up, learning from one another, and creating space for continuous growth.
If we want thriving classrooms, we need thriving teams—and that starts with creating a culture where feedback feels safe, supportive, and part of our daily rhythm.
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Fostering a Culture of Constructive Feedback
In highly effective teams, feedback isn’t something to fear—it’s something to welcome. These teams don’t view feedback as judgment or critique but rather as a means of learning, improving, and supporting one another toward shared goals. They see feedback not as a scorecard—but rather as a conversation. Their goal is never to tear down, but to lift up.
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Challenges are Inevitable
In preschool settings, challenges are inevitable—whether managing classroom dynamics, adapting to new curriculum changes, or finding creative ways to engage young learners. But what if we saw these obstacles not as roadblocks but as steppingstones to growth?
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Shifting the Conversation...
anguage shapes our culture. How we talk about challenges, feedback, and mistakes can limit our potential or open the door to continuous learning and improvement. In early childhood —and any collaborative setting—leaders and educators who use growth mindset language help create an environment where every setback becomes a stepping stone to success.
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The Red Pen Effect
Think back to your school days. Do you remember the red pen? The sharp contrast of red ink circling a mistake, crossing out a misspelled word, or marking an incorrect answer? The red pen often signaled, “You’re wrong,” rather than, “You’re learning.” And for many of us, those red marks left an impression far beyond the classroom. They shaped how we viewed mistakes, learning, and even our self-worth.
Fast forward to the work you’re currently doing with children and families.
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Success leaves clues!
Before we delve into learning from our mistakes or failing forward, let's take a moment to celebrate our successes from last year. This reflection is not just a trip down memory lane, but a powerful tool to empower us for the journey ahead.
While we might not consider our actions successes, this is my first challenge of the year for you!
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Failure is not an Option!
As we begin a new year, it's natural to reflect on the ways we hope to grow and improve. Many of us tend to focus on what we didn’t achieve or what fell short in the previous year, particularly in our professional lives as educators.
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The only constant is change...
Leadership development is a multifaceted journey, and one crucial aspect is learning to navigate change. But let's be real: How many of us actually enjoy change? And let's get even more real: How many of us have learned how to navigate change well?
Leadership development has many aspects, and learning to manage change is an important one.
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You don't have to go it alone...
Did you know research shows your success is influenced and impacted by the five people you spend the most time with? And the five people they spend the most time with?
It makes sense, doesn't it? I mean, if you're spending a lot of time with certain people, it makes sense that they would have some influence over your decisions, behaviors, beliefs, values, etc.
And this is where being "community-minded" comes in. It's about having a mindset of giving and receiving support from those around you.
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I had to practice what I preach...
When I was "growing up" as a teacher new to the field, there was an emphasis on cultural competency, which focused on understanding specific cultures.
While knowing about the communities we serve is essential, over the last five to ten years, the focus has shifted to cultural humility, which emphasizes a process of self-exploration combined with a willingness to learn from others.
Ultimately, the goal is to develop skills for approaching individuals from any culture with the intention of honoring their beliefs, customs, and values. This is easier said than done, and I was personally put to the test when I recently visited a preschool program in Jordan, in the Middle East.
Talk about practicing what you preach!!
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