The Mattering Toolkit
The Mattering Toolkit
The Mattering Toolkit
Make belonging visible. Make impact felt.
The Mattering Kit is a practical, human-centered toolkit designed to help leaders, coaches, and teams intentionally build cultures where people feel noticed, affirmed, and needed—not just occasionally, but consistently.
Rooted in the realities of early childhood education (and adaptable to any relational workplace), this kit turns the abstract idea of belonging into daily, doable practices that strengthen relationships, boost engagement, and reduce burnout.
What’s Inside
Mattering Cards
Ready-to-use prompts and practices that help teams notice effort, affirm strengths, and clarify how each person’s contributions matter.Reflection & Discussion Guides
Structured questions for individual reflection, small-group dialogue, coaching conversations, and leadership meetings.Leadership & Coaching Tools
Practical strategies for supervisors, coaches, and administrators to model mattering through feedback, decision-making, and everyday interactions.Facilitation Ideas & Use-It-Tomorrow Strategies
Low-lift ways to integrate mattering into staff meetings, onboarding, coaching cycles, and professional learning—without adding “one more thing.”
Why Mattering?
When people experience mattering:
Trust grows
Psychological safety increases
Collaboration improves
Turnover decreases
Teams become more resilient during stress and change
The Mattering Kit helps teams move from good intentions to consistent action—so belonging isn’t dependent on personality or chance, but embedded into how the organization operates.
Who It’s For
Program administrators and directors
Coaches and mentors
Leadership teams
Trainers and facilitators
Any team wanting stronger connections, clarity, and care
How It’s Used
Staff meetings & retreats
Onboarding new team members
Coaching and reflective supervision
Leadership development and TOTs
Culture-building and restorative practices
The Mattering Kit doesn’t ask people to be more caring.
It gives teams the tools to show care—clearly, consistently, and sustainably.
